Hello! :) I'm aware that my profile is a bit lengthy but please read it BEFORE you contact me.
**A bit about me...
My main interests are listed above however, I am very open-minded when it comes to trying and learning new things (life has so much to offer, why not try it all?) Eating is one of my favorite things to do (yes, I cook and I try to keep it healthy, of course), so luckily my other favorite thing to do it work out. If you think someone who has to eat 6 times a day and go to the gym at least 5-7days out of the week has OCD then I'm not the woman for you. I've been told I have an "old soul" because my values seem to be different from most people my age. Being genuine, positive, intelligent, easy going, confident, caring, trustworthy, independent, unique, loyal, witty, and down to earth are some of my best qualities. It's rare to see me unhappy, you will never hear me say that "I'm bored". I'm always doing something active (although nothing beats having that special someone to cuddle up with after a long day), am very easily pleased, and believe that drama free is the way to be! I live my life by the "golden rule" and treat others as I want to be treated (R-E-S-P-E-C-T baby!). My worst quality( hey, no one's perfect haha) is the fact that I have no concept of time. As far as my social life goes, I like to do things spontaneously so if you're someone who is finicky about this.... don't bother! haha. I'm not at all into clubs, bars, or socializing with tons of people (I'm more about quality over quantity). I love animals and could honestly say that I prefer them over people haha. I never watch t.v. but am almost always listening to music. While I am more than able to hold an intellectual conversation, I love to laugh and be silly whenever the time is appropriate, so please have a sense of humor. I recently got an apartment in North NJ to be closer to school, I work in Staten Island, NY, and am in Central NJ quite often visiting family or going to the beach. There's much more to know about me but I'll save that for conversation...
**What I'm hoping for...
I have a very full life and am quite content in being single, however, it would be great to meet someone who I could, over time, develop a QUALITY relationship with. By "quality" I mean an abundance of passion, romance, intimacy, fun, friendship, trust, happiness, and eventually love that NEVER fades. I want a man who shares similar interests as me (not hard to do being that I'm like a guy in a female's body haha) and wants to please me just as much as I want to please him. Someone who I can inspire and is inspired by me. I know exactly what I want and refuse to settle for anything less then that "butterflies" in my belly feeling. I don't have the time or patience to be dating around so if you're not looking to find a connection on any level other then "hanging out" or "hooking up", then do your thing and have fun with it... but you can "X" out of my profile in the meantime. Thanks.
**Please do not take it personally if I do not respond to your message or it takes me a little while to get back to you. I genuinely appreciate many of the messages that some of you send to me however, I really do not have time to respond to all of them (which is why I'm doing online dating in the first place). If I don't answer you the first time... I won't the second or third time either so don't waste your time.
**Do not message me if...
-You have mental issues (my heart goes out to you but I am healthy and issue free and would like the same).
-Have children, have ex-drama, or better yet, have a girlfriend at the present time( I'd like to start fresh with someone).
-Are metro-sexual (Do you find yourself wearing capris or pink on a daily basis? Have eyebrows thinner then mine? Or have no body hair for purposes other then bodybuilding? If you answered yes to any of these questions, I will probably not be attracted to you. I like manly men ;) )
-Are overly materialistic ( I appreciate the "finer" things in life but feel the truly meaningful things just can't be bought).
-Are unemployed, unmotivated, or illiterate (you don't have to be perfect but you may consider actually learning to read and write the English language before you join an online dating website. Just a little suggestion.)
-Let's be real...there has to be a mutual physical attraction in order for any other type of connection to possibly be made. I take very good care of myself and would like someone who does the same. I am mainly attracted to very muscular and athletic types. Having nice teeth is also very important to me.
-Have no picture or one of you practically naked, making "kissy faces" in the mirror, or have your middle finger up (that's just a conflict of interest right off the bat haha).
-Don't bother simply messaging me things like "hey", "how are you", "you're hot", etc... (although if the message just says that, I doubt you've even read this far) and no thank you, I do not want to "chat".
**Thank you for reading. If you are interested in finding out more and feel that you have all of the attributes that I am looking for then by all means, send me a message ;)

Good conversation, and laughter. Food helps too haha. The rest are details...