Ok, so this is me take it or leave it

what im like:
i am random,i like to do things on a whim go places do things.i have my bad days just like anyone else, sometimes i just want to be left alone, sometimes i want a shoulder to lean on... im not clingy i dont do clingy, i dont like someone around me 24/7, but i like to know he cares. I'm hard to pry open and ive been through alot so opening up is something that isnt to easy for me. I do not have any kids but i do not mind them i love kids. i have never been married.

what i hate:
clingy!!!! people who move to fast... im not looking to get married tomorrow and i dont want a kid right this second ....eventually i will. i dont do one night stands or friends with benifits right now i jsut wnat to date..... see where that goes relationships just never turn out good! :(

what i love :
my almost 3 year old neice she is my heart and soul, i love random 3 am trips to the wally world i love cosmetics and i love dressing up to go out...i love my friends they are like my family and i would do anything for them!!! i am a girly girl to an extent i love my make up and i love to dress up and go out but at the same time i like my t shirt and jeans. i love to txt! i dont even know how many times a day i txt!

what im looking for:
someone who can make me smile, can laugh , and have fun is patient ,loving,compassionate,considerate, someone who dosent have baby mama drama or ex wife dramam , im not into all that liek i said kids are cool but crazy ex's are not....I DO NOT LIKE CHEATERS or SOMEONE WHO LIES .. i will not tolerate these things i have been a door matt for way to long so its not like 3 strikes your out its zero tolerance.... i do not hook up or do one nighters so if thats your thing more power to u...... kick rocks! deuces!

I just want what every one else wants... to be happy... and i hope i get to meet alot of friends on the way there.. i am starting to think happiness isnt out there ... i hope someone can change my mind





btw my fav flowers are calla lillies

maybe dinner, lazer tag, mini golf , bowling, coffee, idk i feel liek movies is for a way later date so u can get to know the person , its not personal and intimate maybe like a night time walk in the park is nice ..i mean if your feeling it liek if there are sparks