some things about this website that make me uncomfortable: the unbalanced ratio of shirt on vs. shirt off photos, the fish personalities, the tooth whitening/'stomach flattening' ads at every turn, the feeling that you're online shopping for people. Lets not pretend this isn't a weird place. it's weird.

but if you like some of the things that I like and think we'd have fun conversations then that's a lovely start.

music love:
Built to Spill, Owen, Why?, The Smiths, Mirah, Beat Happening, Los Campesinos!, Twilight Sad, Lucksmiths, CFTPA...
author love:
Kurt Vonnegut, J.D. Salinger, Douglas Coupland, Vendela Vida, Dave Eggers, Elyse Friedman..
movie love:
The Graduate, Away We Go, Office Space, Darjeeling Limited, Milk, 2 Days in Paris..

I'm just looking for a good person who can be silly and serious and loud and quiet.

I love unconventional sweetness and surprises. So surprise me, why don't you?