Dating History: I've been on 2 "first dates" in 43 years. The first I was married to for 20 years. The second, a 7 month "long distance relationship...NEVER CHEATED...hardly a player. There's my story. On POF 17 months - No Dates.

The Basics:
Well, I'm a nice guy in the truest sense of the over-used cliché. And, whether you believe it or not, I am one that can honestly claim to have rarely lied, never cheated, or has ever stolen (not even loose candy) to the best of my recollection ("best of my recollection" is NOT a disclaimer). In keeping with the above, I can also say that I've been extremely considerate of others (and still am), albeit, I have since learned to quell that aspect for the practical purposes of a more conscious, deliberate, and equitable assessment of my own needs, in addition to those of others.

Most anyone that knows me would agree that I'm a capable person, yet I am the last person to acknowledge it ( this being an exception, of course). My interests vary greatly, as I like all things physical and cerebral just the same. This also means I take care of my physical health, and tend to do the same for my mental health, as well: a.k.a., keepin' it real! Some of my interests are fleeting, while others remain constant; yet, I remain adaptive and open at all times...I like to think I can hang with anyone from any walk of life and willingly seek any opportunity to speak with interesting people about most anything: from the mundane to the existential. As a naturally curious person, I also like to "chip-away" at the details like everyone else; although, it is my greater tendency to seek the objective-overview in all things, as I feel it is from that state we've originally derived our truest sense of being, wonder, and joy. This also means I tend NOT to become "caught up" within the tedium, and thereby - missing the point! As Albert Einstein is quoted: "I want to know God's thoughts, the rest are just details".

Romance:
Hmmm? Obviously, communication is key: verbal, physical, and emotional. And, because "romance" is NOT a one person affair: it is up to "both" to see the value of each others presence, as well as the creative elements of nuance and imagination. In other words, I feel that there is an innate romantic within all of us that allows such things to be gleaned from the thin air between two people. After all, it's not about what romance "is", or "isn't". It's something that is created. Unfortunately, this seems to be somewhat of a stumbling block for those whom are idealistic in their ways - as though they're painting-by-numbers. In short, I believe romance should evolve moment-by-moment as a visceral and dynamic state. Think of it this way: it's a BLANK canvas that inspires the imagination of a true artist - right? So, I say just get that brush a movin' and the rest will tend to take over...romance is no different than a truly engaging conversation. Hell, who would want "romance-by-numbers" anyway.

Humor:
Well, I'm more funny than I care to exhibit here (I allowed humor to take over the entire tone of my previous profile). Let's just say I have enough wit and humor to pull-off a few laughs...a Priest, a Nun, and a Rabbi walk into a bar; the bartender looks over and says - "what's this, the beginning of a joke!"

Entertainment:
As you can see from my pictures, I don't get out much (preparing for school). But, my two BEAUTIFUL boys keep me busy enough. I do not watch television (it's been two years now)...I figure I can get all of the sex, violence, and silly business I need from the Internet when the urge arises. As a former News Junkie, I do tend to be Socially-Conscious and would like to straighten-out the World some day (I'm both Liberal AND Conservative). Until then, I like to invent, draw, cook (no one beats my French onion Soup), and generally entertain myself through an assortment of mixed activities: fishing and hiking with the boys (locally), going to the beach, staying young, etc. I an not a well traveled person. Eventually, I would love to go everywhere but HELL! Hopefully THAT is on the back burner (pun intended) forever!

The GIRL part:
*Be a lady
*Don't judge people beyond a true wisdom of that person.
*Say COOL, DAMN, yet try to give a SHIT!
*Understand that Balance, Knowledge, and Relationship all denote "movement". Neither of which were ever intended as a Position, Ideology, or Attachment - respectively.

Faith In Men:
Remember, we were all like kids in the proverbial Candy Store...some pieces were bitter, but most was SWEET! The worst part was, you GIRLS owned the joint and could pocket as much Candy (boys) as you wished (loot) without much (any) resistance from us tic-tacs (boys). Conversely, we boys had to get permission (beg) to get a piece (of CANDY!) And, because we couldn't just take a piece at-will like you Girls (not without a 911 call), we boys REALLY appreciated (devoured) whatever piece (of CANDY!) you gave us (ponder this). Fast forward 15 or so years: After much time (maybe pieces) had elapsed, most men will arrive to a degree of wisdom. At such time, these men might even exhibit (dare I say) a more refined depth-of-character & poise. Why? Well, when we were "Boys", you "Girls" were sort of our WILLY WONKA (but with NICER body parts). Consequently, we boys got to play the role of the "Eager Tour Members". Yep! It's thanks to your BEAUTY (wink!) and a few of your butt-ugly OOMPA-LOOMPA girlfriends that some might have to overcome a few bellyaches/suger-crashes before reaching their "Higher-Discernment of Confection". See, contrary to some, we men DO NOT remain the animalistic sweet-tooth's that so many conjure. Heck, we Neanderthals can figure stuff out: like build an ornate castle/cathedral; devise the sciences of mind, body, and abstract philosophy; sculpt & paint the most beautiful & delicate works of art; write the most compelling and heartfelt literature for all the World to behold (nah!). Yet, men are continually seen as the debased counterpart to those we aim to please. Life's a paradox in that we all run a crucible of tempests toward some greater end. So, consider any prior romantic journeys of your "new guy" as merely a process to skim the dross from your awaiting Gold? So, if you're starting over - look anew! Hell, just maybe your "new guy" has freshly distilled himself from the fires of a once youthful ignorance...just maybe he's far beyond any scar-born notions of Mans' contempt for women. Hopefully, (one day) a few will see that it's MEN that must ultimately SKILL-UP for romance; it's the DUDE that must sweat to forge himself into a more graceful and palatable creation for benefit of a Woman (only a good one like you!) And, LIKE YOU, maybe He's also evolved to subsequently HOLD-OUT for that "EVERLASTING PIECE" (See: WILLY WONKA). "TRUE LOVE" - We Build that, too!

Something that'll make you feel good, look good, and maybe even laugh your ass off.