So I'm Stephanie and a little insight to me: I work two jobs, one in real estate and one in financial investments, I am an English major studying to go to law school to hopefully become a prosecuting attorney one day and work for the DA's office, I play the saxophone in a trad jazz band whenever we can all find time to practice, I'm not a huge partier because I have to work so often, but I know how to have a good time.
The hardest thing for me is to find someone as motivated in life as me, and finding someone that challenges me mentally. I'm looking for someone I would call a best friend, someone who is dedicated, intelligent, funny, and has a that spark for life. I guess the reason I'm on here is because I'm someone who knows what she wants, and I'm tired of people who don't know what they want.

[I'd also like to add as a side note, that I believe, for the most part, age is just a number; its really a matter of maturity and how well two people get along. Again, just throwin that out there..]

There are a few things I like to live by: work hard, play harder, and deal with what mess you get yourself into should you play REALLY hard. I believe in making your own mistakes and finding your own way to fix them; life's a game, make the rules up as you go along. You're allowed to make mistakes, nobody's perfect, and we're all just trying the best we can.

If I were asking someone out on a first date (and yes I am the type of girl that would do that), I would probably go somewhere we would get messy, like a paintball range or even something as simple as a bbq rib place where the ice and tension would both be broken through a good time.