well i have been here before. and met some very nice ladys. but still trying to find that chemistry.looking for long term relationship. i dont believe in playing games or wasting mine or your time here. dont date but just one lady to see if there is something there. i get along better with women than men. im not into that mocho crap. dont play video games or just sit on my ass.i want to get somewhere in life and would like to meet that special lady to go with me.im down to earth and dont play games.honesty is a must in a relationship. never been in jail. like trying new things. a spice of life thing. i guess. i have my own home. my kids are on there own. and doing good. and yes my wife past away. so time for me now. i dont have any hang ups or baggage to bring into a relationship.so if you are interested in talking to see if there is something there just say hi. well thats it for now. well save the best for when we meet.p.s. please be a self assured lady. another words a lady thats together with her life. thanks

something simple. a glass of wine. and see if there is something more. and if so plan a real date. together.