I love to relax and enjoy life, have fun when the opportunity arises. For me, life is a fine balance between responsibility and playful blitz.

It's not a great time in my life for a serious relationship, but it would be nice to have someone to occasionally catch a game with, go hiking, or just hang out with, on a somewhat intimate level.

I have toddlers, who get generous visitation with their dad. I'm hoping to find someone to spend some time with when they are away.

Light, feel-good music suits me best, but there is plenty of hard and classic rock in my collections. The outdoors are always calling for an adventure. I love to dance, but not so much the modern sort. At home, music is almost always playing in the background, and the TV is rarely on.

As we are settling into winter, I'm more likely to spend nights in, cuddled into the couch for a football game or movie. Spring and summer, you will find me out enjoying every minute of play in the outdoors.

I'd prefer to have some feet or a back to massage. Oh well, I guess that's why I'm here.



I guess it's only fair to give a brief description of the type of person I would be interested in.

First and foremost, you must be able to type legible sentences, with respectable structure. I have no interest in someone who routinely wares a baseball cap sideways or backwards. 'Skin' shots are very unappealing to me. If you feel you must show off your bod to get a date, it leaves me wondering if you have anything else to offer the world. While I enjoy outdoor activities, I have no aspirations to be a redneck. I know from experience it is possible to live in and enjoy the country while maintaining some level of respectable class and dignity.

When replying, stand out from the crowd. Instead of a simple "I liked your profile", why not describe what specifically you like about the profile.

While inconvenient at times, it turns out that I am fairly bright, and I tend to seek similar minds.

A first date should have plenty of "outs", but be so captivating that no one notices them.

With any luck, there is no planned evening of this then that, but a start of coffee or something simple, that leads to a walk in the park, and perhaps watching the moon rise or counting the stars, lost in conversation about nothing important. Hopefully, it would be something so comfortable and "great", that you dare only indulge in moderation, so not to spoil it's splendor.

I must admit however, taking someone golfing is a sure fire way to see their true personality. It's hard to be on "best behavior" when you've put 3 in the drink on a par 4.