Look it, I have three teens who live with me, and I am getting a divorce, so if you like life nice and simple (drama-free), trust me, you are not interested in me!
That being said, I have an active sense of humor that runs the gamut from sarcasm to really corny, I enjoy talking about just about any subject that has to do with ideas and sharing opinions, I am an active listener and will challenge you to think! I have been described as spirited, bubbly, warm, a saint, a dreamer, and a b---h. That last description comes from the people who don't appreciate my humor! I am looking for friendship first...trying to prove to myself that men really do care to be friends with women...and if it turns into more, that's great. I am not looking to be taken care of, I don't care a whole lot about romance, I don't care how much or how little money you make or what kind of car you drive...I care what kind of friend you are...I care about your capacity to care for others and your willingness to share of yourself. Being my hero means to me being someone I can feel proud to know, someone who lives and acts with integrity and honor. God is really important in my life, and it'd be great if we shared that. Oh, and the main pic is a few years old...Poochie and I are both a little older, a little heavier, and a little grayer...so sue me, it's one of the few good pictures of me without my kids, and the other shot of us was taken a couple weeks ago! :)

We meet in public for the first date. Beyond that, it can be guy's choice...but I like coffee, love Panera Bread, love live music, love comedy clubs, and if you have Steeler tickets and no one to go to the game with (lol)...oh, and let me just add that i like the attentions of a man that appreciates that i have gone to the trouble of trying to look pretty and sexy and feminine! it takes a fair amount of effort to do the nails, shave, and do the hair and make-up, gentlemen...and the uncomfortable shoes...oy vey!...but i love to do it when it's appreciated! ;-)