Hello to all and thanks for viewing my page.I am a single mom by choice of 5 wonderful kids by 2 different men. My kids are my life. I am lQQking for MEN not BOYS.I am lQQking for someone who can be my friend to start off with and see where it goes! if we don't make a connection then I made a friend..I see alot of men on here lQQking for LONGTERM but are they really? Life is a journey and I am willing to see where it takes me. I like to have fun no matter where I am or who I am with.I make the most of it.We only have one life to live and I choose to live it up.(yea buddy!). I am very independent and I go for what I want. I moved from a semi big town to a one stop light town. Yea its kinda different but I like it. I like to have fun with my friends and family and enjoy sitting at home watching movies with my kids even if its watching a movie we have seen a 1000 times...Kids are our future and some ppl fail to realize that! I like blk men but that is just a preference,I'm not saying there's not any good independent white men out there.I like most types of music.I like.....FOOTBALL,(OU SOONERS).&.(vikings) movies,(SCAREY ONES)!So this is alil about me and what I am about. so if u like what you see and hear and u would like to know more, Drop me a line or maybe two... And I will respond..BUT... NO PIC NO CONVO!!!! Always remember to be honest because "the world is round and what goes around comes around".I wish you all luck in finding what you are lQQking for...CYA MESSA

First date huh.... Would be dinner,maybe a movie....and a GREAT convo!!