I have a job and work to much,,,2 grown kids who are doing great on their own, Yes I am big and beautiful that prevents most people from getting to know what a fun loving, entertaining person I am,,,don't judge me by the outside because you are missing out on someone really special Not all the skinny women are great...Just my opinion...LOL I love to travel...would love to do it more,I am planning a trip in May 2010 to volunteer in South Africa for 3 weeks with kids affected by Hiv/Aids, I enjoy the outdoors, I have played ball for many many years and still am not to bad at it..I love to laugh, and have fun, Friends and Family are important to me oh yeah most important I think,,,I am not desperate,,,been on my own for quite a while and actually am good with that,I have been seperated for over 10 years,,,,just haven't bothered with the divorce,,,,I am thinking it might be fun to spend some time with someone maybe to travel or go into the city for a movie,,or just a walk and a talk..what ever happens will happen Would be fun to have someone in my life again,,,I am ready for it

who knows it has been a while..