Being from Vietnam, Adopted at 4yrs old and now trying to think "What does one want to become." I only think about being more comfortable in my skin. I had an alcohlic Mom and was in a out of her life for most of my life until her death.

I have been married 11 years to help what I thought was the greater good.
She got a green card, education and a money out of her pocket will help other.
I guess nature or nurture made me what I am today.

I think being more concern about others before myself is an in born thing. Even if I was raised in VN, I still look for a way to help others.

I am successful in many ways but still look for soul to be my other person which will melt one another's hand into one.

Some of my best friends are female. Mostly married but some are single w/ attachments (kids, boy toys and girl toys) Being single and out at work mostly. I date but it is like an interview everytime. I like to do home activies over the bar scene..I guess I have find more social activities. when I get time off. I mainly find my time being at a resort just be a veg.

UPDATE

It now the Holidays I wonder how many more time will be spent by myself during this time? I can recall many but to be close to one is a real heartship. I guess being hopefully is not enough. What doe it take a non bar and homebody to find the simpliest things.??

Enjoy Movies, Travel, Having coffee and wi fi at local cafe.