Hello, so I just turned 30 last month, yipee! With the start of a new decade I figured I'd use a different approach to dating.

Here's a little about me: I am an open minded and out going guy. I may not quite be a Brad Pitt, but will admit that the few pics I have don't do me a lot of justice. If you message me I will try to answer you, even if I don't think we're a good fit. Why is this? I guess I just can't be that rude to people as to completely ignore them. If you are one of the 0.01% that get 80+ emails a day, I apologize and understand.

I know things are tough now, but I try to be both optimistic and logical. I take care of myself and exercise; I'm not over weight at all and am actually in pretty decent shape. I think a FEW extra pounds on a woman in the right places can be very appealing, but would also like someone who shares at least a little interest in preserving and improving their health/fitness/endurance/etc.

I'm a business owner, college graduate, and am motivated to get ahead. I absolutely abhor games and admire people who are mature, honest, and make a reasonable effort, as getting know someone (and also any relationship, be it romantic or friendly) requires at least a little effort.

Some interests include socializing, hanging out with friends, exercise, entrepreneurship, pool, electronics/computers, GOOD beer, reading, movies; heck I'll try almost anything at least once. Ultimately, I would like a relationship and marriage (just once!) but do want it to be with the right person. I'm looking for a someone with similar ideas who does NOT play games and doesn't mind making a reasonable effort. I want to leave a little to the imagination, so please contact me if you want to know more!

Coffee, drinks, lunch, other suggestions welcome.

Oh, I hate to be this way, but after 3 rounds on here I've noticed some patterns.

If you are into playing games, standing people up, serial dating (dating someone until the next best thing comes along; repeat process over and over), or are just too "busy", PLEASE DO NOT WASTE MY TIME. Thank you.