Enlighten me.

Wouldn't you love to meet that other person who makes your heart do cartwheels, the person that you can not wait to call and tell them how great of a time that you shared with them the day before? I'm pretty sure we all long for this. I do not understand this dating game, as I am not sure if I am supposed to act like I am not interested so that you will call me.... or am I supposed to act like I am interested so you won't call me... tell ya what, I go with being myself and letting my true self shine through. If I enjoy your company, and enjoy being around you there will be a definite spark and you will know.

I am not into rushing and starting faster than I can think, but I refuse to play games with anyone's mind.

There are few people that we meet in this life that just does it all for us... I am looking for him.

You are athletic, motivated, cultured, sexy, fun, funny, too much to handle, have yummy kisses and emotionally available. Race is unimportant. Chemistry is!

Music and love are what motivate me.

Family and friends keep me refreshed and laughing.

I laugh often, love deeply, and find life to be beautiful.

Smooth Jazz, Country, Christian Pop, Top 40, Piano, Sax, RnB, Euro Pop, Electric, you name it, it is on my Ipod.

I want to find my best friend, my last love, my last kiss, my last dance. I am however not willing to take a quick step on the wrong person. He will not be the type to pick me up and put me down every two weeks or month. He will have $ in his pocket, he will have a car, he will have a job that affords him the time and means to get something planned and he will want to spend time with me.


Please be gym minded (I work around professional athletes & favor a man who takes pride in his body, is well groomed and smells really yummy), health conscious and ready for something real. Otherwise, please go to the next desperate female who is only looking for a free meal or someone to give her a compliment. :o) Don't lie- ever. The truth always comes out. If you think for a moment that you can be someone who doesn't take care of themselves and then lie about how active you are, how much you workout, what you eat, drink etc.... someone who actually does lead that lifestyle, trust me, they will know. I personally am not in the best shape of my life, however I fast, take supplements, workout, eat healthy, cook healthy etc. I enjoy wine, but it is on occasion, not nightly. In other words, be yourself. Enjoy and celebrate who you are. I lead my lifestyle in what others may call "crazy fashion", but I chose to live healthy and for as long as I can. I do not eat pork, I occasionally eat beef (very occasionally), I do not eat fried food, fast food (maybe Chic-fila once a month if I am in a huge hurry), I don't drink sodas, rarely eat white flour. My weakness is caffeine.

I am NOT full of myself and I am far from conceited. I say the above to give you an insight of who I am and the crowd of people that will get along best with me.

There is no since in trying to start something with someone that will constantly get on your nerves because she is fasting from something, doesn't eat past a certain time, or can't eat at a certain place because of the additives they put in their foods.

Yes, I am serious. It's really not that bad, haha, it's a lifestyle, but if you do not live this way; trust me, it can be annoying.

This is why it is soooooo necessary to read people's profiles, decide if you can fit into their life, take small steps towards building a friendship, see if there is a spark of chemistry and move forward slowly. There is no rush in this life. If the world ends before I find the "man of my dreams" then hey, I had a great time looking for him. Of course I would LOVE to find my soulmate, however I refuse to just live with someone because I don't want to die alone. Too many people settle and live unhappily ever after. I am not that girl.

Peace and blessings- tonia.

*If I have not offended you and you think we could have something in common, please get in touch. If I have offended you, save your time, I do not fret over hate mail. You will not ruin my day. Trust me. *

Simple, but fun.

Walk through a park with bottles of water or a bottle of wine.....

Downtown bistro with live jazz and a Starbucks......

Fine Dining- your choice :)..........

Bowling, tennis, bike riding, mini golf- any of the aforementioned will be your laughter at my expense- however, my pleasure to put a smile on your face.