Here it goes..I am looking for someone that is secure with themself and knows what she wants in life, but no so secure that she isn't willing to let someone in. I am a very secure person who has traveled most of the world and love seeing new places. I really love the outdoors! If you say you like the outdoors, biking, rafting, hiking, fishing anything outdoors is good for me. I work hard and like to play hard. I don't do the bar scene but do love to country dance when the mood strikes. I am also in the Reserves so if that scares you i'm sorry, I believe in serving my country and have done so since 1990. Too much more to try and say here, I am 38 but still keep up with all my young soldiers and friends. I am very easy to talk to and believe that a lady should be treated like one.

My first date??? I would take you out for a nice dinner with wine or your drink of choice. Conversation is a must, I would want to know who you are and where you want to go in life. For the first date I think we would have to see what kind of chemistry we had and let the night go from there.