my main hobby is cookin. I love to travel. I like to swim, shoot pool, fish, hunt, hang out, love sex, watchin movies, and all the other normal things that people do. my goal is to have the american dream. my plan at that is by developin my own construction company to operate on the west coast and south coast. my sense of humor makes me unique. I was taught to look at the bright side of every situation. I'm also a great listener. I prefer hip hop and r & b. although hearin other music doesn't drive me crazy. I've learned to respect peoples choices at music. unfortunately the average woman will look at me and assume the worst because they think there is a catch to me bein single with no kids. have you ever thought that I could just be a responsible man? I say to women, stop treatin me as if I'm a big mystery. you say you are lookin for a good man, I could be everything you could ever want and need in a man, but you will never know if you make prejudgement. cloud 9 gets lonely, but you already know that, so women lighten up. I can't hold the torch for what every other man has said and done to you in the past.

a first date is completely optional. we may meet for dinner, a drink, a movie. it all depends on the vibe and mutual interests. I like to surprise a woman. not just on the first date, but throughout our being if compatible. I've been raised well by a very lovin community in the south. one of my key elements is how to make a woman feel like a queen. listen to her when she speaks, even if she is just ventin. sweep her of her feet with passion and a sense of carin that lets her know my feelings are true. rub her feet after a long day of work. run her bubble bath. cook for her, even when I've worked a 10 to 12 hour day. let her know that I'm not the typical man that thinks a woman's place is in the kitchen. treat her as an equal. when I do meet the right woman, she will know.