Professional, well-groomed men go to the top of the list. I love confidence, not arrogance, a sense of humor, well-spoken/read/educated. The perfect match is someone who loves juxtaposition, as in drinks at the Ritz Calrton for a black tie event, and then hitting the local dive on the way home. I'm not into games or drama, so if you are, good luck with your search. Outgoing personality a must, fun to be around, no possessive/jealous types. Good heart, good person, good mind. Local men get preference over long distance dudes too. I'm not looking for a "virtual"/online relationship, so if you are, once again, good luck. Please take the time to fill out YOUR profile and add some of your own words; I respect and respond to those who are painting a true picture of what they want and are capable of givnig. I am a fun, easy-going person, looking for same. Additionally, you should be clean, drug and disease free, as I am. Sane, secure gentlemen please.