I have grown a lot in the last 10 years enought to know that life is to short to worry about the small stuff,the have and have nots so I stay in the moment to keep my pass from having a negative impact on today ONE MORE THING TO MAKE THIS EASY Tell somedody you love them TODAY, for no reason and mean it . You can only offer real love when you don't NEED someone to be anything other than what they truly are... no matter what the outcome may be. This is true love, and the real meaning of "when you love someone, set them free

Meet first and talk then date
IF THIS FIT'S YOU, THEN WE CAN BE GREAT TOGETHER
Grown Women
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls yell at you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it, using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls try and make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the together time even more special and goes out with her own friends.
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue and respect they did.
Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his manhood.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.
Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all signs.
Grown women know that sometimes the one's you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this