Well this is the deal, i've been in many relationships many good many bad. Some for two days some for two years. The problem i always seem to run into is a word i like to call Whoas-me-drama. Nearly everyone i've met has some sort of checkered past, which is the past but some don't realize this. Or they have something going on in there life thats so intense that they don't have time for a serious relationship(isn't that the point of this web site hmm?)HA. Another problem has been drug users, not in all my god given life have i seen so many ladies with drugs problems, its as though they can't cope with anything in there lives so they resort to illegal drug use(same goes for mean also, but i'm straight as an arrow so i don't care about them:). I just want someone who wants me JUST as much as i want them, someone that appreciates being spoiled, loves to be held, loves affection and actually INSTIGATES it, and doesnt wait for me to make the first move. Also sex is great but there is always a time and place for it, not every time we touch do i expect to get naked. I myself am just looking for a nice normal girl to get to know, who takes the initiative to get her man, and what she wants. Also someone who doesnt drop the F bomb every other word, its very unattractive and very unlady like (although everyone curses a bit, don't make yourself a sailor). So not to sound picky but hey its nearly 2010 and there are still very few LADIES out there. I myself love movies, computers, music, outdoors, video games, traveling or just driving around, and having a good time. Why finding someone else with those same common interests is such a hard deal i have no clue. But oh well she's out there somewhere i guess. So if interested give me a buzz, just please don't start with oh whoas me i have so many problems right now.:(

Go out, eat, walk talk, go shop, hang out at the persons place(if comfortable), drive around, sit in the car and talk, and whatever else comes to mind. Just don't start with how bad all your x's were and everything bad thats ever happened to you, i understand people have issues, but wait till the second date at least lol.