Starting over. Hope I can get it right this time, Not a player but need to ease into this ok? I am very straight forward speaking and a good communicator if I am in the company of the same type of person. I'm not a corporate guy or California surfer dude. Never watch sports or watch TV, but love movies. I'm just an artist trying to survive some difficult times and would like someone that understands the creative personality. (or at least can deal with it LOL) I deal with a lot of status driven people in my business but on a personal level this leaves me cold. I have served on several non profit boards and admire people that are willing to put their time and sweat into a cause rather that throwing money at it so they can feel good.

I would like to share my feeling on the "chemistry" that everyone seems to be craving here. I believe this is something found farther along in a relationship. Many people think they are feeling or not feeling chemistry on a first meeting when in fact it is simply physical attraction or lack of. I think this confusion leads many down the wrong path or no path at all. I do my best to be objective with people and hope you can do the same. I am someone with a lot to say but would prefer to say it in private so please email me if you have some interest.

I have traveled quite a bit and enjoy people from other cultures. Not in a hurry to remarry but not out of the question for the right person if that is important to you.

I would like to skip the first date. I don't like them at all. And yes, I have alternatives to them.