Hi I'm Anita,or Neet to my friends :).......I am a witty spiritual confident loving genuine and intelligent girl. I consider myself to be pretty (its confidence not arrogance though) I am a dress size 18, but I am confident just as I am and I am comfortable in my own skin,always well groomed, and fashionable.I like to be me though and don't follow the crowd as far as being obsessed with designer labels and stuff...

I am quite proud of the fact that although I'm 42 i do look younger and I'm still wrinkle free yyaayyyyy!!!!

I adore animals and I own a big black wabbit called Jet :) I'm a pescatarian which means i only eat fish and no other meat...its just a personal thing and i wouldnt dream of lecturing anyone else about eating meat :D

I love travel and have visited many countries,south africa , canada loads of europe and America my favourite place being Hawaii...unspoilt and so beautiful it takes your breath away..i have more on my list i'd like to see, one of them being the northern lights with somebody special one day...

I love music (I can't live without it!) anything from the 80's ,soul,disco,funk,very varied taste love keane,guns n roses,kings of leon,coldplay,elbow,florence and the machine,kasabian...

I like reading too and i am a bit of a speed reader ...I'd love to have more time to read ...I love biographies (not ones that are written by 20 yr old minor celebs who think they've had a life!) I also read spiritual books and thrillers ...I'ma massive fan of Dan Brown,Stephen fry,Ben Elton,denise Linn,Sanaya Roman....many... and i read the odd light hearted girly novel by Lisa Jewell

I LOVE film too and try and go to the cinema at least once a week...far too many faves to mention...

I can do deep conversation til the early hours with a nice glass of red :) but can also be light hearted , I love to laugh.Please don't messaage me if you have had a sense of humour bypass operation!! I have the ability to put people at ease in my company and I'm pretty easy going really

I am looking for somebody that considers himself to be attractive (which shows confidence i think) and who is intelligent and witty and I definately have a thing for lovely eyes.... They do say after all that your eyes are the window to your soul :-)

I do like cosy nights in and miss kissing....theres nothing like it...sigh.... :D

I am a freelance media make-up artist and hairdresser and have my own mobile business but also work in financial sales so I have a very busy life with my two jobs! I am very driven hard working and independent,i am also a volunteer at a homeless drop- in centre and have been for six years I love it and it isn't as gloomy as it sounds :)....infact its really rewarding :)

I don't watch much Tv and hate soaps! (sorry) but love comedy especially the office, extras, peepshow the inbetweeners, extras, alan partridge also QI, Mock The Week,come dine with me (alan lamb who narrates it makes me giggle) I love the series spooks too,ray mears and bear grills,and nature and natural world documentaries...

i know I've written alot but there is much more to find out :) and didnt want anyone to contact me that isn't on my wavelength so thought it best to put a few things down... :)

A nice meal out, or going for a drink, nice coffeee house somewhere...pretty easy going really, I also like a walk in the countryside on a lovely day :-)

Please don't contact me if all you want is a one night stand,you want to remain in an "email fantasy world" not in reality and you don't actually want to meet eventually when we have been talking for a while I dont want to email somebody for 6 months!! lol...