I am now in this period of my life when I have finally realized that I can't settle for just anything. I have spent a good part of the last 2 years reflecting on how I want to live my life and who I would like to be. I am a goodhearted person, with a lot of good qualities to offer. But I also know that it will take a while for me to give wholeheartedly again. I don't like playing games and I have come to the conclusion that I am looking for my best friend first and foremost. So if you message me, and I don't message you back, please don't take offence. I am not looking for the "one" nor am I here to just "hook up" for a casual fling.

I am looking for someone to hang out with, go to movies, have coffee with, maybe even spend an evening cooking dinner and laughing on the couch watching something funny. To me there is no first date, because first dates are so intimidating to some, I would like to spend the first time meeting you and getting to know you, forget all the formalities....we're both adults, we can figure something out.