I just recently realized that a person cant be independent if they have to depend on someone else. My childrens father has walked out on us and Im doin what I have to do to survive and take care of my children. I work, I have a place to call my own, and I have my own vehicle.. I need someone who isnt below me. Im learning to take it day by day. My children are my world. Its a package deal.. Im intelligent, and VERY responsible. I know what I want, and Im not settling for anything else. Ive had it with the losers who cant get theyre life together or who give up after only a few years. Im honest, and I dont walk on eggshells for anyone. I dont cause drama, and I dont take no crap.. but I do enjoy gossip just as much as the next female. I can hang with the guys, and still be that girly type. I have that extra weight but I carry myself well. Not trashy nor dumpy.. I want to meet someone and see where things go.. Im not in a rush for anything..