I'm an ole-fashion country girl, who knows what she wants in life. I also enjoy cooking, and spending time with that special person who makes my day complete. This is rare for a female, but I'm an avid sports fan with a love for basketball and football. I'm romantic by nature seeking someone who is a dreamer and yet still somewhat grounded. I am looking for a man who will surprise me with something spontaneous and who enjoys receiving similar treatment. I want someone similar to myself but with differences so we have a bit of ''spice'' in our friendship. Let's face it being with someone exactly like yourself would be pretty uneventful. There would be nothing to discover. I want to get to know you for who you are, who you believe yourself to be and the man you are striving to become. I am looking for the man who will speak to my soul and make my heart sing. I want someone who is not afraid of a challenge and can laugh at himself if he makes a mistake. A great sense of humor, a love for sports, poetry, music, and a respect for cultural diversity are all pluses in my book. I seek strength, sensitivity, and patience: a man who knows the difference between "sensuality and intimacy" and "sexuality". I seek a man who is secure, and has wisdom tempered by time and gentleness. I want someone who is not afraid to learn from those around him. This is a bit much I know, but I believe that a closed mouth doesn't get fed and one should ask for what they seek