Once when I was sailing, my girlfriend at the time was a nurse and didn't get off work until after midnight so I asked her to meet me at the Jolly Roger Restraunt guest dock. She was a little late getting there, and I was a little buzzed from hanging around the bar waiting for her. By the time she arrived we just decided to leave the boat on the inner bar guest slip because it was foggy and I was tired and didn't feel up to anchoring out. BIG MISTAKE... I woke up to a crunching sound. I jumped out of the****pit "indecent" only to discover that the tide was leaving me and my ship high and dry on the rocks...that wasn't the worst of it. The worst was sitting for the next several hours while dozens of smartass fisherman and boaters were leaving the port laughing their ass off and pointing at the stupid naked blow boater. Care to join me? I can assure you, its never dull.

I like informality on an initial meet. As a former college teacher, each of the students gave a small intro., what they were expecting, or hoping to get out of participating. That does not sound romantic, but it would let both of us "put our cards on the table". We are both up for romance maybe, but lets be frank, a meet and eat, or whatever is just wrong for that. I will flirt and check your reactions and see where you are comfortable. We'll take it from there, by mutual choices. A preview of my desires for a next date, well "it all depends on you."