I really think that, the spot where it asks "I am Seeking a" should also have a listing for friends because I am just looking for friends....kinda strange to be on a dating site and just looking for friends...oh well. I have pretty much had it with being involved in romantic relationships. I am taking a break from all that stuff for a while and focusing on other aspects of my life. :)

“Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.”~ Mahatma Ghandi

KINDREND SOUL MATE is someone with the same feelings or attitudes as oneself; typically there are not romantic feelings towards these individuals. These are quite common in everyone’s life and good friendships result of these unions.

Friendship: is co-operative and supportive behaviour between two or more people. In this sense, the term denotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other’s company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behaviour, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviours. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.



Just to clarify...for those who wish to include me in their assumption and perception of those guys "Just looking for friends".

I am of the opinion that physical intimacy between a couple is the truest purest expression of mature love between them, the expression of the intense intimacy of their very hearts, the expression of the deepest emotional connection of their minds, the expression of the intimate intertwining of their very souls...sex without those things is meaningless, a waste of my time. That is just my understanding of making love. :)

I am not into one night stands, Friends with Benefits, Intimate Encounter, Other Relationship, Booty Calls, or any other terms to describe this sort of interpersonal activities.

"People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost." ~H. Jackson Browne

I have two vices
1. Being addicted to cigarettes
2. Being addicted to coffee
That is it.

Yes smoking is a bad thing for health and yes I have that addiction. Yes I have tried many times to quit. I know that for some the smell is just repelling but seriously if you are only chatting on line what is the problem. If you so choose to base NOT becoming friends because I smoke then the loss is yours. I have many other traits and qualities that make up for that addiction.

I am a kind, loving, compassionate, optimistic, playful, passionate, affectionate, sensual, open-minded, adventurous, a leader but I know when to step back and let others take the lead, romantic, honest, genuine, confident, loyal, possess strong integrity, family oriented, strong sense of identity, ambitious, great work ethic, great morals/values, clean, intelligent, educated, okay in the looks department, humble, a giver, a little shy, sometimes quiet and reflective, somewhat athletic and fit, balanced, good sense of humour, philanthropic, spiritual, posses a child like wonder with the world and fun.


"If anyone can show me, and prove to me, that I am wrong in thought or deed, I will gladly change. I seek the truth, which never yet hurt anybody. It is only persistence in self-delusion and ignorance which does harm." ~Marcus Aurelius

OMG!!!! that means I would have to seriously work on overcoming my shyness.... errr... uhmmm... how about chatting over a cup of coffee, that works for me... will it work for you?

FYI: I do not do the MSN chat thingy... not my cup of tea.

My definitions of what a “Real Woman” is.
A woman, who’s physical beauty is outshined by her inner beauty.
A woman, who’s words touch my heart and give my soul a big old hug.
A woman, who’s as concerned about my “me time” as she is her own.
A woman, who’s intimately accepting of my little quirks as I am of hers.
A women, who is my emotional and intellectual equal
A woman, who is the center of my world as I am hers.
A woman, who is my best friend and I am hers.
A woman, who will not become possessive, manipulative, controlling, clingy, abusive
A woman, who is balanced in her healthy boundaries and is able to stand up for herself.
A woman, who inspires me to be more just as I inspire her to me more.
A woman, who does not live in a fantasy world of make believe
A woman, who will rock my world in the bedroom as often as I rock her world.
A woman, who is as loyal and dedicated to me as I am to her.
A woman, who is willing to explore the world with a child like wonder of everything,
Are my simple requests to muh to ask for....