It may shock you but I really like living in the OC. I am just far enough to be away from the city, but close enough to go there anytime I want. I enjoy going to Duck games in the fall. I umpire baseball and referee basketball. I really like to cook and try out new recipes although I rarely follow them exactly...that's just no fun. I'm looking for a nice well adjusted woman. If you have kids that's fine if not that's ok too. I sort of missed out on kids and realize everytime I see my brothers and sister's kids just how much. I prefer brunettes as there is just something about dark hair and eyes that catches my eye. I would also like to meet someone a bit younger than me but not too much. It seems like ladies in their mid-forties are already in grandma mode. I don't think it's a big deal to be a grandma, just when you're 42 and act/dress/feel like you're life is over or something.

A buddy of mine told me a funny story about a lady who thought meeting for coffee was lame. So he invited her over for dinner at his place. He would cook and do the whole deal. She balked of course since they had not even met yet just emailed. So I guess what I'm saying is let's just meet, have some coffee, tea or whatever...shoot maybe even a****ail or two and see what happens. We can get creative/fancy later. Deal?