I'm an open-minded person and easy-going, spontaneous, adventurous, mischievous, loves to smile and laugh at a good joke...

I have broad interests, everything from traveling to playing video games to working-out at the gym, plus goals like... I dunno, I'd like learn how to snowboard someday!^^ and experience more of the world--traveling, plus many places I'd like go back to, like that 400-yr old irish pub in Dublin called O'Donahue's, or the Rocky Mountains. Well, I'm willing to give just about anything a fair shot as long as we're both having a fun doing it, I think that's what makes it more memorable. Just as long as it isn't trying some weird exotic foods like half-form duck embryos, monkey brains, or canned silk worms--nah, I ain't down with that. LOL I like to dance, go camping, browse the electronics section at Best Buy, and... fair warning, I'm random, there's no telling what I'll decide to do on the fly ^^

As a person... I am a fierce friend--protective, thoughtful, reliable, and responsible. I value the things money can not buy--friendship, trust, respect, caring, and love. I've been described as down-to-earth, good-natured, realistic, and a real puzzle as to why I haven't been swiped up already as I've been asked that countless times... I dunno why I'm single, I just am, that's all I can say ^^

So... why am I here? What kind of man am I seeking?

Well...I like someone who can treat me well, is honest, sincere, will not lie or deceive me, care about me and for me, but most importantly, can talk to me and be able to communicate.
...And I also like someone who can accept me for who I am--not for what I look like. Many men out there only see the surface and won't go past that. Sure I am attractive, but I have depth too.

So what depth of virtues and qualities do I possess?

Okay, in all-seriousness here ^_- down to the nitty-gritty...

BTW, gonna say this up-front...if you're one of those that asks for my phone number on the first or second email, or just hand me your's, well, I'm not likely to respond, cuz it's really a turn off, and most women would agree (and most women wouldn't tell you that, FYI)... I need to get to know you first. I'd rather be cautious and take things slow, and see where it goes. It's better for me to do this at a distance. Also, if you're reading this and are wondering "Geez, is this girl for real??" I think you and I both know that people can be whoever they want to be on the net and put an image out there that's unrealistic, absolutely fake. If you're one of those guys that's gonna try picking a part my emails, profile, txt message to find something wrong with me, then don't waste your time. What you see is what you get; take it or leave it. That's my attitude, but for the record, I am actually a straight-forward, honest, and sincere person, one of the few out there. If that bothers you, then stop reading. I'm not here to play games like that. The ones that are fakes and losers leading people on are the ones that don't deserve to be here.

So...in relationships, my man is as important as my family and friends. I'm not one to betray via other men, lies, or deceit. Even in the rock-bottom of all relationships, I would never do that to someone. I've been cheated on, why would I wanna do that to someone else?? Well, I've had my share of pain, but I know better than to "get-back" at someone to make things even, that's not who I am. I genuinely care for the well-being and health of others, even if perhaps all I can do is make chicken 'n dumplings, hold their hand, and watch movies with them all day... sometimes that's great comfort to the soul. I'm capable of standing my ground and holding the fort so-to-speak... I can take charge when necessary and get things done. I can take care of myself. I'm not a slacker, freeloader, hooker, boobie-flasher, or... what else, I don't drink anymore, and I certainly don't smoke.

My philosophies and spiritual perspective on life and living are my foundation. Although my profile says I am a Methodist, I also follow the way of Buddhism and Deism. I consider myself as having morals and sound beliefs, but I'm not a church-goer. I don't need to go to church to find God. I found God on my own. If it were not for my personal experiences, I'd be Agnostic. Not that that's a bad thing... I am respectful of another's beliefs and keep an open mind. Even if you're an Athiest, I'd listen to what you have to say :) In the end, we all want to be happy and do not want to suffer.

I'm willing to give anyone a shot, as I'm willing to give myself a chance as well... but a friend once said "If a man doesn't give you what you want, and doesn't want what you have to offer, then it ain't gonna happen. And there's no point in forcing it either."

Just to be clear, I'm not here for a fling or a 3-some or a casual dating experience until some guy makes up their mind what they want or where they really want to stand. I prefer relationships that move in one direction: forward; if not, then just maintain would be okay. Going back and forth creates too much drama and I'm not down with that. So if you take any sort of relationship seriously, there needs to be consistency. Honesty would be good too. But I understand that we're all human--I make mistakes too, so if I mess up, I would do whatever it takes to make up for it. Communication is important too (did I say that already?)... I don't read minds.

Also, you need to be close to my age! As in, no 45-50+ asking me to hook up. That's a little creepy.

Altogether, I'd say I'm a pretty cool person and like to have fun in life. I'm open to talking, and getting to know people, and seeing where things go...

I like a very casual setting, but I am not into dinner and movies. It's hard to get to know someone when you're stuffing your face and staring at a screen. Someplace where we can talk... like a cafe, maybe have a coffee, or a stroll into town...sushi is good too.