I'm a goal oriented person, and aspire many things in life. I'm a single mom of 2 boys that I've devoted my whole life to. I work full-time, and therefor I feel the need to distract myself. My hobbies are watching movies, just not scary ones unless I have company, reading a good book, presonal and private conversations, bowling, and overall just hanging out and having a good time.

A first date is important but I do believe that if your with the right person, it really doesn't matter what you do.
First dates are already pretty awkward it should just be simple. Maybe like meeting for a drink or coffee and trying to get a feel for each other. See if there is any chemistry.