Hey everyone, my name is Ray. I am on here seeking someone who is serious about having something real. I am open to dating, but if the other person doesn't want a long term relationship in the long run, what's the point? I am very random, and can be disorganized at times, so I am going to keep this straight forward as possible. I am very blunt, and honest, in my description so you get a good idea of me in a page. This profile will scare you fake females away. I know the majority of females on here are shady and not looking for a actual real relationship, so I just laugh and keep going:)



First off, I am not afraid to stand up for myself, no matter how big you are. I am considered a hard ass and a smart ass, but in a good way.I have short dark blond hair. Hazel eyes. I have alot of tattoos. I am outgoing, reliable, caring, compassionate, supportive, goofy, adventurous, spontaneous, and shy at first. I am very supportive in a relationship; I will never put you down, I was put down alot growing up and I know how it feels. I will open doors you when we go somewhere. I will always compliment you, but I will also tell you the truth if you ask your opinion on something because I want to be open, but I don't mean to be rude if asked my opinion. I consider myself odd in a good way.I am serious type but I am very goofy too.If I am at a party, I can be the life of the party, or I can just chill. I am unlike anyone you will ever meet. I promise.



I love off roading, camping, fishing, and jumping in rivers and lakes. I love music deeply. I listen to everything musically-literally. I listen mainly to death metal and hard rock though, but know my country music. I can dance to any kind of music, just try me. I love my classic rock and rockabilly alot too(dark side lounge anyone?).I have seen hundreds of bands in concerts. My favorite band is BENEATH THE MASSACRE. I am cultered when it comes to food. I will eat everything, except monkey brains. I was offered monkey brains and refused. AIDS! I love retro cars; I drive a bobber style motorcycle. Sorry, its a single seat, so I can't give free rides,lol. I love thrift store shopping, and my favorite color of clothing is brown. I can have fun doing just about anything.I am easily entertained. I try hard, I work hard, and I play hard. I have a one year old daughter that I love deeply, but her mother has made things complicated and I cannot see her until God knows when. It's a disgusting/selfish situation, and I am tired of talking about it. That about sums me up, so now I will talk about what I am looking for in a woman and relationship. I may sound demanding and rude, but I know what I want.

*If you feel you are too busy for a relationship or even dating, don't waste our energy.

*You must be able to cook and clean. I do my fair share of laundry and cooking.

*If you care what your friends think of your man, please move on.

*If you are judgemental, please move on.

*If you have kids, I don't mind. But either way, I want a kid or two within a few years.

*If you are high maintenance, move on.

*If you voted for, or would have voted for, Obama, please move on.

*If you are self centered, move on.

*You must not mind getting dirty at all. I need a woman, not a prissy girl.

*I don't like fast food but I will eat it if I have to. I want a woman who is health conscious. I don't mind if you are a vegetarian or vegan. I can respect that in a person. I will make jokes though, for sure.

*I want a woman who can be open sexually. I show a lot of affection if I am in a relationship. Sex is not everything, but I don't need a woman who is gonna be lazy in bed and just lay there. It's a two way street.

* What i am loking for emotionally, and romance wise is as follow(summary): I want someone I can cuddle with when i am having a bad day; someone who will give me a neck massage and tell me it will be ok. I need a closeness with someone, like intimate but not in a sexual way necessarily. I wanna be able to come home and say,"how was your day?", and have my partner ask me the same. I wanna open the window on a rainy night or day and cuddle. I want to go to my grand parents cabin and cuddle in front of the fire place and drink hot cocoa. I want to give my partner reassurance when she is feeling down, or upset about something in her life. i am usually good at reassuring/comforting people, since my mother had to alot while i was growing up(my dad was a mad man). I want someone who knows how to integrate their faith in God into the relationship. I do this myself in general. God has blessed me alot , so i incorporate God into my conversations alot, but not in a overkill kind of way.


If I think of anything else I will be sure to add to this. I am not looking for a one night stand, buddy, or a short term thing. yahoo imwithstupid84

Well, there is not much to do in Dallas for a first date. You know what i;m talking about i you live near dallas. I would say ziplining or ice skating, but i dont know of a zip ling place around dallas. Once I get done lifting my truck, trail riding at a off road park could be a option, but hopefully I won't be looking that long.