Helllloooooooooo :D wahoooooweeeeeeeee!!!! I am a 38 year old happy girlie looking to find my best friend and lover for many more years to come god willing. I am a spur of the moment type gal so if you love to just jump in a car...crank the tunes and just drive and not know where you are going to end up then you're my type of guy :D

I am looking for a long term relationship I realize I must DATE first .....when I list myself as long term means I don't want to have one night stands. So I don't need any emails asking me if I will meet for a quickie or a friends with benefit type relationship if I get those type of emails I will need to block you.

I am going to be more direct this time around so I will apologize if I sound like a BEE-OTCH but I feel I need to be a wee bit more clear of what I am on here for and what I am searching for as I have had quite a few unwanted emails and I don't want to feel pushed out the door (or pond since we are all fishing on here) LOL because of a few bad apples(or fish) that might be on this site.

I am a love love girlie and I am going through a divorce. I have been separated 18 months now and was in my last relationship almost 15 years but we chose to end it as we weren't the same people we were in our 20's and that's OK it happens. I love to go for walks, road trips, travel, I love tattoos and will continue to get many more (I have about 14 as it is now) if you have tattoos then great if not no worries. I love to cook and entertain, have a passion for music --most kinds not big on rap or techno type tunes. I adore animals and I own cats and my sister owns cats and a lab (I live with my twin sister). I enjoy going to see the black bears and the eagles never get tired of that. I love to smile and laugh. I would love to learn how to fish again last time I went I was 12 years old and I was afraid to take the hook out of the poor fishy's mouth and dragged him back to the cottage behind our boat and ended up drowning him ...my brother was not impressed to say the least LOL

Type of guy I am looking for is someone who is positive, witty, optimistic, laid back and fun. You should be a man that enjoys a curvy bbw type woman as I am short and curvy. However I am working out more these days and if you are active I would love to join you (may not be the BEST at first to keep up at certain sports) but damn I will try and not give up :D Would be great to meet a man that can feel he can be himself around me and I can do the same. I am looking to find a best friend but my perfect lover too. I am not a high maintenance girlie ...I love to dress up but I have no prob putting on a hat and grubbies to chill out ....love to be adventurous and I am willing to try new experiences. He must enjoy children as I have two sons ages 5 and 9.5. They do live with their dad full time but they are very much a part of my life.

I have two dreams I would like to achieve before heading up to the clouds ....one is to visit Africa to do a safari (huge animal lover here so please no hunters email me) and I would love to have a log type cottage by a lake with a boat (grew up with one and love the cottage days so much). I don't smoke pot/weed so I prefer to date someone that doesn't smoke it either (wow that should WEED out a lot of guys no pun intended ;) ) LOL

There needs to be some attraction to the person from both parties. I tend to be THE NICE GIRL and answer all emails on here which tends to give the wrong impression (that I am interested in more then friendship or chatting on here) so I am changing that by not answering every single email I receive so I am sorry if you feel that is rude or an act of being a BEE-OTCH or if you think I think I am too good. That's not it at all... everyone on here is searching for that person that DOES IT for them and I am no different.....so please don't take offense if I don't respond. I do enjoy email exchanges to start to see if there is a spark or common ground between us so please don't email me asking me out for coffee before you even find out my name :D

I wish you all happiness in your hearts and in the search of your special person as well as some smiles, laughs, and humor along your journey.....cheers :D

Chai tea, sushi, walks, go play pool ( I suck at it) see a band in a pub, go get a tattoo ;) depends on the person...but I am sure we'll figure it out :D