We are all damaged and bruised, in a sense. Its how well we heal and recover that makes the difference. We all have baggage as well. Its how well we pack and carry it that counts. I am a Type A personality - agressive, strong-willed. A true Taurus in every sense of the word. My logic to some my be a tad bit radical. I dont follow the masses and thrive on thinking outside of the proverbial box. Each and every day, I strive to be the best person I can be. Im open to someone I can click with that will understand me and I him. If it leads to something deeper, all the better. I am a grown woman - my parents have raised me already and I dont need someone that thinks that they can either re-raise me or change me. Keep the ex-wife drama, baby mama drama, ex-psycho girlfriend drama, needy dependent grown children drama, and your separation issues from your previous relationship drama to yourself. If this is you, dont even waste your time. Im not bringing it to the table and neither should you. Take care of those issues before you attempt to involve someone in your world so they wont be subjected to the bulls#$%.

I enjoy horror movies and psychological thrillers. I am an avid reader and enjoy bookstores immensely. As a hobby, I knit and crochet on a professional level. I sew on an intermediate level. I also enjoy cooking, with an emphasis on Southern cuisine. To say that I enjoy food is an understatement. I love to laugh and am a real clown when you get to know me. My humor tends to be a little dry and sarcastic - nothing is off limits for a joke or snide remark - yeah, its an acquired taste. LOL Yes, I can take it as well as give it. I enjoy music - classic house, oldies, R&B, classical, jazz, neo soul, rock, and some rap. I am an average sized woman with a "few extra pounds." In other words, Im a little "fluffy" in some areas. Yeah, I could stand to run around the block a few times, however, on a conceited note - I dont know of any man that would kick me out of bed because of it ---- LMAO I am definitely a girly girl and a tad bit spoiled...but I can kick back with a beer and get dirty when I have to.


Please understand that we all are individuals. Thats what makes us unique. Individuals have preferences that further define our uniqueness. Keep that in mind. Dont be offended when myself or someone else decides that there isnt any "chemistry" or that there isnt any romantic relationship potential. Conversely, dont feel bad when you feel that way about someone else. That just means that youre not the lid for their pot and vice versa. The hell with everybody else - be true to yourself. And in all dealings, romantic or otherwise, BE HONEST. If youre here in search of a bed buddy or something less permanant, state your intentions up front. Give that person the option of deciding whether or not they wish to participate. We are all adults here. There is no need for the childish games and lies.

Thanks for stopping by and good luck to you on your search. May you find what truly makes the both of you happy!!!

KaChau!!

Hmmmmm. Hard to pin that one down. Have to play it by ear...