Hey there,

My name is TJ. For starters, I am of Indian descent. I don't know if it is an issue, but thought I would throw it out there. I'm 5'10, 180 lbs, black hair and brown eyes. I just moved out here for work, so I am not completely familiar with the area. I am a financial analyst. I'm a very laid back guy who just enjoys having good conversation. By good, I mean something that keeps flowing and often jumping around to various subjects. My conversations will jump from a movie I've recently seen to the grandma wearing a bikini, who incidentally has scarred me for life.

I've been told I come off as very quiet and shy till someone gets to know me. I enjoy trying new things, and maintaining an active lifestyle. I'm of the opinion life is short, the weekends are even shorter...so I like to fill in the most I can every weekend. I really want to learn to surf but I want someone to learn with me or stand on the beach and laugh at me when I fall..then make fun of my "mad" skills. I have been thinking about getting a tatoo, something small on my back or my biceps. Just something that has a special meaning to me, or to celebrate a milestone/accomplishment.

Okay. Enough about me. I just want to go out/take someone out on a date. No pressure. I've been out with some girls after I moved out there and they have either been flakes or just plain retarded. I want some sort of conversation, not about your ex. I don't care if its about politics or the economy or just about the latest movie you've seen or what superpower you would have or who would win in a showdown between Jet Li and Jackie Chan.

I wouldn't mind meeting up and just getting to know each other. I don't know that I have an ideal situation to meet someone up. I would really like a situation which is very stress free and very comfortable for both. I think meeting up with someone in PB and going for a walk around the pier while we talk and get to know each other is ideal. If things clicked, it would be cool to go to a bar/coffee shop nearby to continue our conversation till the place shut down. If it was a really great conversation, I can see myself talking to someone while we both drove home and then probably continue talking. Ideally, it would be so good that both of them would end up sitting on carpet with the phone plugged into the charger still talking.
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Type of girl I'm looking for:
All ages, shapes and sizes and races. My last GF was 6 years older than me so not a big issue with age. I DIG tatoos on a woman. I love a woman in a formal gown, business suit, old t-shirt jeans and a sandal. As long as it suits the situation.

Hope to hear from you soon. Please send a pic and I will reply with one. I will reply to every single real email. In the subject please post your favorite color so I know its not a bot.

Cheers
T