Okay, so this is my second time around. I was gone for 2 and a half years, and now i'm back to try my luck again. Would love to start off as friends, and hope that it would lead into something much more beautiful than that.

I'm a very romantic, sensative, and caring person. I'm the type of person that likes to show affection. To some that may not be important, but to me it is. When someone you love comes to you for a kiss or a hug, it makes you feel wanted. When someone wants to cuddle and be close to you, it makes you feel desired. I never got the kiss first, or the hug, I had to do everything first, feeling undesired, wanted, or appreciated. So I want those things in return from a partner.

I grew up hearing the words "I love you" everyday of my life. To this day, I could get off the phone with my mother a dozen times, but won't forget to say I love you once before hanging up. I might sound like a mamma's boy, but the truth is my mother is my angel, my life, and I wouldn't be where I am today, or the type of person I am if it weren't for the big heart my mother has.

I'm very family oriented, love children, and always wanted to have children of my own. Being 34 now, I'm not sure if that dream is out of reach now, but only time will tell. I would never NOT get to know someone, or date someone just because they already have children. That wouldn't be fair. I understand that things happen in life, which leave you in certain situations, but having a child, is a beautiful thing, and I envy everyone who has one.

I hope to find someone who knows the meaning of family and how important that is. Someone who knows how to treat someone the way they want to be treated. Someone who realizes when they have something special, and knows how to hold on to it.

I enjoy and learn to appreciate the little things in life that make up a whole picture. I love to write poetry, songs and play guitar. I love to leave little notes outside of the door so when my partner wakes up and walks out she can read it and smile and know I woke up thinking of her. Little things like that which people just don't seem to do as much anymore!

I read a quote once and it said... "If I were to die, and you were to walk over my grave, from the depths of the earth I would hear your footsteps." Thats the kind of love I'm looking for!

I have to state right now that I don't really respond to women who have a bunch of pictures on their profile but have only written 3 lines. To me it just means they don't take it as seriously as I do. I also don't respond to women with half naked pictures, or shots from above totally focusing on their cleavage. I'd like to find a women with a little more self respect than that. Thank you.

P.S. I know that matters of the heart isn't something anyone should rush into, and finding that perfect someone, though is my goal, is worth waiting for. So at the same time I know there are lots of people out there that would just like to get out of the house once and a while, or have something to do,,someone to just relax with, and laugh with. A new friend I guess. I'm always up to that. God knows I could use getting out a little more often,lol

Oh, one other thing. Believe it or not, I'm quite shy, so if I add you as a favorite, its probably because I'd "LIKE" to talk to you, but feel a little intimidated,lol


Take care everyone and wish you all the best in finding what your looking for.

I think the first date should be more like two friends just getting together to chat over a drink, and enjoy each others company. No pressure or expectations that way, so there are no disappointments that way. If we can enjoy our online chat, there is no reason why we can't enjoy chatting in person. I find its easier and more relaxing that way.