I'd rather be sailing. I am originally from Southern New Jersey and will always be a beach bum at heart. Been in New England for a few years but am always finding new things about living here - some are good. I'm responsible and independent, but love to have fun and laugh like a kid. Humor is key; one has to be able to laugh at life's problems. If I am one of life's problems, please don't laugh at me. Hate cellphones and love cooking (but not seafood) and let out my creative and artistic side occasionally, too.