I'm young looking, and have changed very little (one of the reasons I have not taken new ones). If anything I think I am better looking now than I was when I was in my twenties, insofar as I am really a man now, and have lost a little of that youthfulness that was so predominant in my 20's. And yet many people are still really surprised when I tell them how old I am. Most think I am still like 26 or something. I know I can take better pictures of myself than what is on here, and I have friends that can help me. So this will be my next effort in this regard.

I am a quiet, reserved, and artistic individual, often stoic and introverted but I do like a good laugh and going out with friends on occasion. I am also very honest (sometimes even to my detriment), caring and affectionate person. I am a faithful friend and would never intentionally do or say anything to hurt someone, especially someone I love (though I would be the first to admit that I have before). I am creative and passionate in all I do. I will give my all in the right relationship, but at the same time hoping the other person will share in the growth of that relationship, and not cling to me too much, as I cannot be someones savior (and if I were to try to be, that would not be healthy for either myself or the other person).

It is very painful when you really love someone and they don't love you the same way. I say this because I know what it is like.

But I know so much more as well...

I like social outings when there are people there I know, but I am equally comfortable spending time alone with the one I love, playing music, going online or reading, etc..

I consider myself different from most men, but not boring by any stretch of the imagination - so long as you are not one who is used to doing things every night (a socialite), going out and spending money that cannot be afforded. These are hard economic times, and not many people can afford many frills. But that does not affect me very much, since I tend to not spend a lot (though i do like my toys), and I like to stay home most of the time.

I do like myself despite the many mistakes I have made in this life. I also believe I am worthy of someone special, and I also believe I have a lot to offer.

I am young looking for my years, which is sometimes a curse, or a blessing, depending on the situation.

It does not matter to me your education, background, INCOME etc.; I like a person who is not afraid to be themselves, an honest individual. I especially admire someone who has had a life of hard knocks, and is a better person for it. It is what has made me, me. I wouldn't change a thing.

I am a romantic at heart, and I don't want to settle for anything less than truelove. What I really pray for is a serious relationship with a a lady who I can really connect with.

I am not looking to rush into anything at this time (I've learned that it's important to take your time to really get to know someone, but I am aware that a person CAN actually fall in love at first site).

In the end a good friendship is the foundation to any successful relationship. And if that friendship never blossoms into anything more, than that is alright; I try to take life in stride.

I will deeply love the right lady however. And it is my prayer that I meet her in the right time.

I'd work with the other person in deciding what to do and where to go. I am not really good at this sort of thing so I like to be democratic in this regard.