Fresh Beginings..... So....I am a passionate creature, who lives life up and meets it on my demands. I'm so happy to be alive and to get to experience everything life has to offer - the promise of a new day, every day excites me! I'm fun loving and spontaneous - I'm definitely able to get down and dirty and dig for worms or snake hunt with my boys as well as get dressed up for a date or girls night out. I try to live life with laughter. I have a great sense of humor although it can be a bit sarcastic at times. I am just as comfortable in a room full of people as I am in an empty house. If it's a full room, I will enjoy the conversation and energy that brings to me.. and if it is an empty house I am going to love the peace and tranquilty I have in that moment. I live with my 2 younger sons. We do a lot together but I also know how to balance "me" time to keep us all healthy. I'm a hard worker when I'm at work but I don't allow work to consume my life again its all about balancing. Too much of anything can burn you out and I like to keep everything fresh and new to the extent I'm able. In the end, the words I would use to describe myself are, flexible... emotionally stable... outgoing... and well balanced.

I don't have a cookie cutter answer to what would I do for a first date.. it depends on the person and the circumstances. Instead I'd rather say what I am and am not looking for... Now that you know a little bit about me.. let's get to know you... if you were my ideal match, you too would be well balanced and emotionally stable.. as well as spontaneous and flexible. I would love to have someone to spend time with that has a great sense of humor.. that's a big turn on... as well as sensual, romantic, soft enough to show your true feelings and strong enough not to care about what people think when you do. You must love kids.. I come with 2 as I mentioned and will not allow anyone to push them away from me.

What I don't want/like is an ego maniac, control freak, someone who hasn't grown up... or is just programmed with a mindset for sex. I don't want anyone to contact me that is just looking to get me in bed. Nothing turns me off more than a man that has to bring it up and joke about sex as much as he can. I think if there is chemistry you will know it, feel it... and if you meet someone and it seems nice but as though something is missing then you shouldn't compromise on, go with your gut every time.