I am open minded, easy going, NOT girly, yet feminine. I think outside the box. A walking contradiction...an optimistic pessimist, agnostic itself is contradictory. I love a good conversation and mental interaction. I like honesty (even brutal).

I am into hiking, camping, swimming (used to swim competitivly, scuba dive and lifegaurded back in my 20's)...things outdoors and with good friends.

I have one child who is with me about 75% of the time (weekdays and one weekend a month). I like to be out and about on the weekends and Tuesday evenings when my ex has our child for part of the evening.

I am low maintenence and truely enjoy life, especially the simple things.

I am looking for someone who thinks outside the box as well. Mental attraction is the most important to me. I can enjoy hanging out at home at times, but I am also looking for someone who is into doing things (this can be camping, hiking, playing pool, just hanging out, etc...). I enjoy a good laugh and often get humor that isn't always the norm.

Would be nice (not fully necessary) to meet someone who has watched and pondered such movies as (in no particular order) "The Fisher King," "The Mission," "Cinema Paradiso," "My Life as a Dog," "Gran Torino," "the hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy" but can also enjoy movies such as some of quentin tarantino's, cheesy zombie movies etc... Can go from intellectual conversations to stupid jokes and innuendo's or at least put up with me doing so, :).

If you can explain and understand what Camus means by "The struggle itself towards the heights is enough to fill a man's heart. One must imagine Sisyphus happy" I would be extremely impressed. :)

Music taste really varies...current top songs (this changes though and I have a pretty eclectic taste in music):
"It could be sunshine" Love and Rockets
"Broken boy Solder" The Raconteurs
"Eye" Smashing Pumkins
"The Passanger" Iggy Pop
"Things that scare me" Neko Case
"Angel From Montgomery" John Prine
"Holiday on the Moon" Love and Rockets
"Take a walk on the wild side" Lou Reed
"Cuts you Up" Peter Murphy
"Wicked Game" Chris Issak
"Wild World" Maxi Priest

Recently been listening to some Love and rockets (current fav), Jimmy Cliff, White Stripes, Tomm Waits, The Raconteurs, ACDC, Led Zeppelin, Leonard Cohen, Otis Redding, Pixies, Smashing Pumkins, Chris Issak

Get to know each other in a laid back atmosphere with conversation...location would be picked according to both of our interestes.