Lets see, I'm a pretty well rounded guy. I'm intelligent and mature, and I look for the same thing in a man. I'm a very active guy; I enjoy tennis and volleyball, I love the beach, national parks, the tropics, the mountains, as well as the urban areas, so I guess you could say I'm easy to please in that sense. I plan to be a professor of sociology and queer theory at a major university. If that falls through i can always fall back on a steady career at Wells Fargo. I'm attracted to men that, like myself, know where they want to go in life. As far as physical attraction, I usually find myself drawn to masculine looking men. I tend to have a bit of a fetish for body hair as well so thats usually a plus. I'm not judgmental, and I hate it when a person takes one looks at someone and begins to tack on labels. I'm looking for a man that is down to earth, and rational with a good head on his shoulders. I like a man with wit, and intelligence, not arrogance. I'm a sucker for old fashioned, non-sexual romance. It says allot about a man that is willing to put off sex for romance, passion, and non-sexual intimacy, and thats exactly what I crave in a partner. However, men like that tend to be far too scarce.

First dates should be in a casual, social setting. I personally think that a not too formal, yet not too casual restaurant would be nice. Then possibly coffee or tea. Changed my mind about a movie. First dates need to be, like I said, in a social setting. That way you can get to know your potential love interest better. Movies don't allow for much socialization.