I am a hard working, honest, loyal, funny, sarcastic, witty, and handsome man who is a loving and devoted father to my children. I love the outdoors and staying active. The ocean is my first love and why I love living here. If it is summer and and the weather is great it is hard to me keep home (Probably at the beach). I have been told by my friends that I do not look or act my age. I am responsible, but have a crazy fun side as well. I like to work out and stay fit.

What am NOT looking for?: A mother for my children (they already have one). I am very independent so I am not looking for someone to mother me.

What am I looking for?: A mutual physical attraction is must with a personality that is polite, friendly, funny, warming, and fun. Integrity, honesty, independence (but no feminists since I like to be a man at times and treat you like a lady), no mental or substance issues, no married or attached women, enjoys good food whether out or in, likes to take care of themselves outside and in.

I want a true friend first. Someone I can be active with and explore new things. I love to be outside. Not looking for an extreme sport partner, but one that likes things that are beneficial to keeping in shape. You must enjoy the beach from the chaos of getting there to the refreshing shower and dinner/drinks that conclude a wonderful day. You must not be a coach potato, but like music and movies or a specific show.

I am a good person who has been through it all. Everything starts with a strong friendship and if the sparks fly then it will all progress naturally.

I would like a casual meeting to see if there is chemistry. I wouldn't consider this a first date, but I guess the first step.