If I add you to my faves that means I am intrigued and might still be debating if I actually want to message you or not. Kinda like throwing things into a shopping cart and weeding out the items you want from the items you might actually need. Sorry about the shopping analogy but I think it works in terms of plenty of fish. After all isn't that what we are all doing here...selling ourselves and shopping for that special someone?


At the ripe young age of 33 I know what I want. Life is short and I don't waste time playing games. I think its absolutely crucial to be friends before getting serious. I'm straight forward and blunt at times but at least you always know where you stand with me. I tend to be sarcastic but most people can tell when I'm joking. I'm pretty laid back and am not the type of person who has to plan every last detail, although I still think it's important to at least have a plan of some sort even if said plan is scribbled on a post it. I desire laughter along with intelligent conversation and someone who has the ability to debate controversial issues without getting irate if/when I disagree. I prefer a man who has depth and compassion, someone who is not afraid to express his opinions and at least cares enough to maintain an up to date knowledge of what's going on in the world/news/politics. I would like to meet a man who also knows what he wants and thrives on romance, excitement and adventure.

I DID NOT VOTE FOR BARAK HUSSEIN OBAMA. That said he is our President for the next 4 years. I will work in 2012 to make sure he doesn't get re-elected. I am a capitalist. I work hard. I expect to get paid and I don't feel entitled to other peoples money and I don't feel that any body is entitled to a share of my money.

Musical tastes.... I'm into all different kinds of music....indie rock, alternative, pop, house, R&B, old school and some new school hip-hop, some metal/hard rock, however on my ipod I mostly listen to artists like, silversun pickups, bloc party, the honorary title, stellastar, the killers, panic at the disco, arcade fire, black eyed peas, the bravery, madonna, britney spears, lady gaga, coldplay, the cure, death cab for cutie, depeche mode, fall out boy, the all american rejects, fiona apple, tori amos, garbage, gwen stefani, no doubt, hard-fi, interpol, kasabian, pinback, the postal service, soundgarden, tool, a perfect circle, chavelle, chakira, VHS or BETA, youth group, incubus, pantera, morning wood, nora jones, bjork, michael buble, harry conick, frank sinatra, dean martin, tony bennett, metallica, black sabbath, faith no more, diggable planets, black sheep, a tribe called quest, de la soul, slick rick, kanye west, new order, nirvana, linkin park, korn, deftones, smashing pumpkins, sting, the police, mute math, and many more.


About me... I moved to NC from Florida in 2005 and miss being just a mere 20 minutes away from my favorite beach. I'm a brunette of average build with hazel-greenish eyes. I'm curvy but not overweight. (btw, I am tattoo free/piercing free/plastic surgery free/hair dye free) What you see is what you get.


Anywho...I love animals (I'm a little more of a cat person but love dogs as well)I have no pets at this time :( I don't have much time for hobbies being a working/single mom of a 4 year old... I never take myself too seriously. I absolutely love life and enjoy spending time with friends/family. I believe in working hard and playing harder. I enjoy taking care of myself and staying as fit as I possibly can. One of my many goals are to continue with my education and to one day work with elementary school children.

I love doing most things outdoors although I'm you're typical girly girl and tend to avoid doing things like camping (unless in an RV). I love amusement parks and roller coasters. I love the beach and prefer warm weather to cold yet I do enjoy the change of seasons, but when it gets too cold I so long for warmer days. I loathe having to bundle up in tons of winter gear or worse drive in ice/snow.

Obviously, I've gone on enough about me...I'd rather hear more about you. Hit me up if you like what you see. No pressure let's just have fun and see where this goes.





fave marilyn monroe quotes of all time...

"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure don't deserve me at my best."

"'A Wise Girl Kisses But Doesnt Love
Listens But Doesnt believe
And Leaves Before She Is Left'"

"I am good, but not an angel. I do sin,
but I am not the devil. I am just
a small girl in a big world trying to
find someone to love."

"The body is meant to be seen, not all covered up."

"It's often just enough to be with someone. I don't need to touch them. Not even talk. A feeling passes between you both. You're not alone."

"Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition."

"If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything."

"I don't mind making jokes, but I don't want to look like one."

"All little girls should be told they are pretty, even if they aren't."

"I restore myself when I'm alone."

"She was a girl who knew how to be happy even when she was sad. And that’s important—you know "

"The nicest thing for me is sleep, then at least I can dream."

"I don't mind living in a man's world, as long as I can be a woman in it."

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they are right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust noone but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."

"Give a girl the right shoes, and she can conquer the world."

"I'm very definitely a woman and I enjoy it. "

"What do I wear in bed? Why, Chanel No. 5, of course"

"I have too many fantasies to be a housewife.... I guess I am a fantasy. "

Preferably a first date would consist of going out for a drink or just a cup of coffee.