I'm a clean cut, old fashioned and decent fella who is an senior architect currently working on hush hush projects for the military, and also an experienced firefighter that is advancing his skills at the fire academy nights and weekends. I'm intelligent, fit, and artistic.

First I’m here for dating, and trying things out with before settling down with any one person, but eventually that is my intent. I'd like to meet a cute young lady with similar values who’d like to develop a relationship based on trust and mutual respect. I know pretty much right away if I like someone or not, and know what I like and what I’m looking for. So, I'm interested in meeting you if you are, and the more you want to be with me the more I'll want to be with you. I get most excited about women that really like me, and show it. Basically, the more energy you put into it the more I'll respond reciprocally. The more you play, the more I like to play. I just want to have fun and enjoy this life...it's so short, and we're only here for a little while, so lets just have a really good time. Ideally, I'd like to live an aesthetic life filled with good experiences while using our wits, along with experience and planning to avoid bad situations.

I'm pretty level headed, responsible, and neat. I'm deadicated, conscientious, and strive for excellence in everything that I do. When I make a commitment I stick to it, I never lie, and I'm good for my word. Constant drama and crisis's are not to my liking at all. I'd like to think that I'm smart enough to avoid all that, but in a relationship you are relying on the other person too...so that being said, I'd like to be with someone who is beautiful, intelligent, sexy, fun to be with and stabile. I’ll keep this part short because I’m a positive person who believes in life, creation, and the protection of life. However, not be negative, but I don’t like people that play games, and have hysterical personalities, borderline personality disorder, do drugs (legal or prescription), or are mean and nasty. If you are a negative person, who likes to escalate problems instead of working to calm things down and fix things or if you like to break relationships rather than build them, then don’t bother talking to me. I will challenge you, and we will eventually fight. It happens to everyone, but you have to be willing to learn how to deal with each other, accept our differences, and work towards common goals…this is essential and can make dreams come true. Hopefully, we’ll meet, hit it off, and spend some time getting to know each other while enjoying each others company, and when the time comes if we do have an argument we’ll get over it and move on together rather than apart. Seems like it’s hard to find anyone that actually wants to go the distance…

Lets cut to the chase…we should be able to communicate directly right away, and meet right off. This shouldn’t be too much work, that’s what jobs are for. I want to have fun, and I’m sure that you do too. We should just want to be together, and there shouldn’t be a lot of hassle in trying to schedule things. It’d be great if you’d call me all casual like and say ‘Hey, let’s get together’ or ‘I’ll be over in a bit’ or ‘Wanna come over to my place’…and anytime that would be fine with me. I’d like to be your friend, lover, and someone that you can count on through good times and tough times too.

Sorry to say I'm extremely busy right now, but in my down time also very much alone....perhaps the reason I'm on here...not enough time to meet people and even less to spend out and about...

I've got some conditions...I work alot and sometimes out of state due to the nature of my work...although I'm in Boston several days a week...then because of responsibility to my community and the fire department I'm very grounded and have to stay within a few minutes of my home when I'm here. There's not much to do around here, but I do like to cook, and also watch movies...so I'd like to throw out a few ideas...

1. We could meet in Boston for lunch, or dinner and I could give you a tour of the fire museum after.
2. We could go hiking here some weekend when I'm not at the fire academy or traveling.
3. You could come to my place where I'll cook you a candlelight dinner, play guitar and sing you some songs, and then we could watch a movie and chill out on the sofa.