I'm a 38 year old designer from Albuquerque, NM. I enjoy being out and about rather than always staying home. I would like to find someone who's intelligent, somewhat extroverted, is caring and has a sense of humor. And, if she likes me, even better.

On a first date, I would take her to dinner at a nice, quiet restaurant. I would definitely ask more questions than I would talk about myself. And, I would consider it a great sign if she'd be willing to take a walk and chat some more after dinner. Of course, we all have an IDEAL thought about what our 'first date' would be. How often do they actually happen?