I really appreciate the small things in life. Food and music in particular are a big part of my life. I do enjoy appreciating the arts in life such as musicals and live jazz, but a great conversation with someone at home over a glass of wine and a home cooked meal is just as much an art to be appreciated. At the heart of my hobbies is simply spending time with people you like and love and enjoying their company and appreciating their unique spark.

I pride myself in being different than most men. I like women who are independent and free spirited. Women who believe and prove they are every bit as capable as their male counterparts. I like women in all shapes and sizes but I really do prefer women with curvy bodies.

Music is a HUGE part of my life. It's deeply a part of who I am. It's just not not possible for me to choose a favorite movie, I'm as big into cinema as I am music. I'm a huge TV buff, but lately I've been detoxing. Currently I'm into WEEDS, Dexter, and True Blood, and So You Think You Can Dance. I really enjoy the literary classics such as Fahrenheit 451, Animal Farm, and The Jungle, and I also very much enjoy reading business and social science writings, such as The Tipping Point.

Emerson once said that "words are finite organs of the infinite mind". Indeed how right he was. Getting into someone elses mind and understanding how they think and operate is exciting and fun and if you connect even sexy. So the perfect first date would involve a great conversation. You know those kinds of conversations that last for hours and before you know it your asking yourself how 4 hours went by? Yeah, that kind of conversation. The location isn't as important really, it's the company. Great food and music is a must, but if you can't have an amazing time just enjoying your date's company then you don't really have a spark after all. It doesn't matter what you talk about, it's all about getting to know how the other person thinks and what they value in the world and what they like to do with their time. If all goes right, some hand holding and maybe some making out, and even maybe more depending on the person. It's all about going with the flow and enjoying the connection to another person.