I have always found traditional dating sites to be tough, it feels like there is a lack of real honesty at times. Well I will start in a very honest place; my sexuality is a very important aspect of who I am, and it needs to be front and center when I am looking to meet anyone. So what am I looking for? ...I am not looking to get married*, I am not looking to be joined at the hip with someone....what I am looking for is to start with someone that I kinda dig, I enjoy hanging out with and I have a great sexual relationship with. I know that sounds very non-commital, but I have no illusions about the difficulty of finding 'the one'. It takes time to build something more and what I have described is a great starting place in my mind. I don't want one night stands, I don't want Married Men. Nothing says that the relationship can't grow into more. I like me...but know there is always room for improvement....but am feeling really good about where I am.

If you like to think, are somewhat introspective, willing to challenge the status quo, willing to challenge me and to be challenged, then you might find me to be intriguing. But I love to laugh, I am quick witted, I love the outdoors and hiking and working in my yard. I would like to meet someone that is emotionally, mentally and physically available. Someone open and honest....that can have a serious conversation as easily as playful banter....it may not be forever....just for right now is a good start.


*not that I am opposed to marriage, just not searching for it....it happens when it happens, not when you want it!!

I find a good place to start is to meet for a cup of coffe or a drink.