I'm a single 36 year old big beautiful woman! I've never been married, nor do I have children. However, I feel like I'm finally where I want to be in my career and life. So now I'm ready to find someone serious to spend it with. I do want to get married and have a family one day. I'm only getting older! I'm happy with my life and where I'm going. I just want to find the right person to spend it with!

I'm a Gemini and live up to every part of one! I'm funny, sharp witted, honest, caring, open minded, understanding and strong willed, loyal and 7 people call me
their best friend. Oh! And it really pisses my off that my brother comes up on here as one of my matches!! GROSS!!

As far as the kind of man I'm looking for:
Must love music! Going to local shows, like cats (I have 3) Most guys would say cats are a deal breaker but whatever. If you like me you'll get over it. He must be honest with good communication skills, be as tall, if not preferably taller then me, enjoys cooking or at least eating MY cooking, have a career, home, car and NOT be bipolar! Had two bouts with bipolar men, NEVER AGAIN!
Looks wise, preferably but not required: blond hair, short hair or no hair, light eyes, stocky tall build, 6'2 and taller, tattoos I think are sexy if tastefully done. Piercings are cool too. Just not in excess. Dimples are a definite weakness!!

I guess my ideal first date would have to be to go somewhere quiet so we can talk and get to know each other better. Maybe dinner or a nice long walk somewhere. then maybe take in a concert or show. I love music and have a lot of musician friends. I strongly support the local music scene and like to get out a couple of times a month to a good local or national show.