What I want is a good natured,attractive, fun, sarcastic, family guy who is willing to try to make a dating relationship work. I have been on this site for two months now...and all you men that are gonna get too close and run...don't bother!
I am very funny and sarcastic and can be a good time. I love most music but I am partial to rock. I am not into games...I have had enough of them. I am not a stick figure so if you are looking for that...you can move on. I am a shapley mom that needs a little more time to take care of herself...I am also beautiful and caring and dependable. People tell me I can be too honest...but I do not see it that way. I believe any good relationship of any kind has to have honesty and respect to begin with.
My kids are my life...I have three...they are why I work my ass off at two jobs to support them and if you want to be in my life in any way shape or form...understand that they come before anything...even myself.
I do not have a lot of time but I will make time for the right person...because I need to have a little fun in my life...and some adult time.
In a man I like dependability and honesty. I will consider the outside as well as the inside. I do not expect you to fall at my feet and open doors...but I do expect respect. I like a man that will listen to my day and tell me about his...take me out and have fun....be affectionate...and that man can expect the same from me. I do not drive because all of my money goes for my kids and our apartment. I have a lot of travel time in between working, but again I will make time for the right person. We can end up friends, or date and see where it goes....If you have gotten past the part where I am separated (for SIX years btw) than that is good, because it is all about money that I am not divorced....
Once you get to know me I will be a fiercely loyal friend or girlfriend. I am a teddy bear inside and we might have a good time together.
If you want to know anything else about me just ask.

A first date would be whatever we decided it to be. I don't have alot of money and I am not looking for a man to spend a bunch of money on me. We can see a movie,rent a movie, go to dinner, take a walk play pool, go watch the game together somewhere(Sabers)...maybe doing something silly..idk roller skating to watch eachother fall on our asses...whatever works with our schedules. It would have to include actual conversation to see if we can get along...and then well we would take it from there...I am not picky!