So this is my second try on this thing and what I've learned from my last experience is that very few of you actually bother to read these things. I know....you're men. You look at the picture and go from there. That's cool. You gotta be attracted first before anything else right? Nothing wrong with that. I get it.For those of you who tell me you are reading my profile, let me apologize ahead of time. It's just that I really put some thought and effort into trying to tell you important things about me and what type of guy I'm looking for, and I know for a fact 90% didn't bother to read it since no one knew the secret password (I will explain later, It's actually a very funny story).

So since all of a sudden everyone tells me they ARE reading this, here's a little about me. I'm Italian originally from Staten Island and still work and spend alot of time out there. I've never really been totally fond of NJ but you know--bigger house, more property, better schools, so I do the commute. I am Not however your typical SI girl and am not attracted to the stereotypical cugine juice heads with waxed eyebrows and a year round fake-n-bake. I prefer my man has a neck. I do however appreciate a man who takes care of himself,knows how to dress and looks great in a suit (what man doesn't really),and likes to wear one every now and then.

Chivalry will not be lost on me. I appreciate when a man opens doors and pulls out my chair, and sends me flowers once in a while. A man who is loyal is a must. Someone who is close to their family and appreciates their friends. A belief in God in some way or another would be nice. I'm no holy roller--belive me, but athiests scare me a lil :)

The first thing I usually notice is a beautiful smile and someone who can laugh and not take everything so seriously. A sense of humor is a man's sexiest attribute and being able to laugh together is key to a long lasting relationship whether it be romantically or otherwise.

I've just really started dating again and am not looking to jump into anything serious for right now. Down the line--who knows? I haven't closed any doors just yet.

I do have a 5 year old little big boy. He's the most amazing kid ever (I know every mom says that). Fortunately there is no drama with my ex (anymore) and we are both very flexible and accomodating when deciding who has him when, so getting together is never a problem, nor am I looking for someone to take the place of his dad, or take care of me financially, or whatever other hangups you have about dating a woman with a child. Lighten up guys. There's plenty of attention to go around.

Well, if you've actually read this far, 1.) you've already scored points and 2.)we'll decide when we speak where to go from there (the key word being SPEAK). I hate incessant emails and text messaging. You'll score double bonus points for calling me first.....on the phone. :-)

For those of you trying to figure out what the secret password is, please save yourself the effort. Although I do appreciate it, I was referring to the experiment I did on my last profile. There isn't one this time but it's very cute that some of you have tried to guess. And don't make me have to do it again!!!!!! :0)