I'm a happily married guy going on two decades. My wife and I tried the swing thing for a little spice but it was too hard to find couples where we were each attracted to the other half. We have since evolved into playing alone every once in awhile. LOL I've caught a little cynicism in that area so please know right off the bat that your welcome to get in touch with her to 'verify'. I'm looking for friends with benefits. I am not looking for someone that needs to see me every day/text me daily/etc... Please be secure, confident and able to communicate.

The party scene doesn't do it for me. I'd prefer a quiet dinner, out for a walk, etc...