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cactushugger41 : Soul mate where art thou?
City
Chandler Arizona
Sign
Virgo
Height
5' 9" (175 cm)
Age
41 year old Man
Smoker?
No
Ethnicity
Caucasian with Brown hair
Body Type
Average
Religion
Lutheran
Cruise in March 2009
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I am Seeking a
Woman
For
Long Term

Do you drink?
Socially
Marital Status
Divorced
Profession
geography
Smarts
Bachelors degree
Do you want children?
Undecided/Open
Do you do drugs?
No
Do you have children?
Yes
Do you have a car?
Yes
 
Interests
fishinggardeningparenting
astronomystorm watchinghiking
lakesriversbeaches
cuddlingrelaxing in the spamy pond
dreamingalternative musicmetal
footballhome improvementnature
NPRpoliticsscience
universeintelligent conversationfairness
justicegeographynatural wonders
About Me
Well, I’ll give a whole new approach to writing one of these a try. Rather than advertising how much fun I am like so many do, I’m gonna try getting real. After all, if all these people here were as they say – why are so many still here?
I see two primary reasons for that: the important stuff gets left out with perhaps a fair amount of exaggeration going on... Then, there are many who are just so picky that they date without end, never moving on to the success stories here. I'd rather spend quality time with someone, instead of perpetually looking for someone..
javascrapt:smilie('')

As for me, I was only married once. It’s now approaching 3 years since my divorce, so, I’ve been giving this a try. What an adventure it has been. I’ve made some friends along the way, and yes, a few relationships too. I’m still here though, since my soulmate is still out there somewhere, and I’m not about to give up on finding her just yet.

Now, about me; I am very stable, loyal, funny much of the time, I have a good job, a daughter with me about ½ the time, I own a house, I communicate my feelings, and I try to live by the Golden Rule. I like to travel, garden, home improvement, and I like cuddling lots. I have experience I’ve learned from, but no real baggage or drama. I’m not perfect, but I can say that I don’t carry any of the bad traits many do (abusiveness, irresponsibility, dishonesty, etc.) All in all I’m not flashy, but a great catch for a woman serious about finding a good man. I believe the world is getting it wrong with so many single and so much divorce, cheating, etc. I believe the best way for people to exist is with a loving companion, it’s that simple. I believe in old fashioned values in many ways, but I’m also a liberal minded person capable of seeing a larger world. I also believe in looking out for the least among us.

I ask that my honesty is met with honesty in return. The woman I hope to find has a strong conscience, a positive outlook, she’s responsible, and she seeks resolution over conflict. She knows what she wants and doesn’t play games. The last I dated advertised much of that, but I would only find out otherwise... I seek someone more honest, and more knowing what she wants.

Any here wanting to find a companion need to be able to spend a little time getting to know the other. I have my responsibilities too, and I’m pretty independent, so I don’t have big time expectations. If you're looking for a bad boy or someone with issues; sorry, I'm not like that...I'm seeking true love in a troubled world - it's as simple as that...

Well, that pretty much sums it up!

Cheers

First Date
Comfortable is my preference - with plenty of conversation. The coffee meet or happy hour is fine by me for a first date. The Monastery by Falcon Field is a casual yet fun place to meet, and I know a few other places too.
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Must not be married
Must not smoke

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