I am a passionate, fun, adventurous girl looking for a guy that appreciates what I have to offer.
I take risks & love to be adventurous. I run a high end, busy bicycle store and endurance/long distance bicycling it is a big part of my life. I also am a licensed cycling coach and I am a director of an indoor training program. I suppose the case could be made that I’m defined by my work but that’s hardly the case.

I’m not a head case or a woman with “issues” I’m legally separated, have been for a long time. Sometimes it just takes too d*mn long – stupid economy-anyone wanna buy a house??? Know what I mean? It’ll be done by 2010 one way or another.

Physical appearance is important but not the sum total criteria for me. I like my body. I’m voluptuous, curvy and athletic. I’m a passionate, physical woman (forewarned is forearmed). I’m not seeking a Michael Angelo (although that would be nice). I just want a guy who can at least see his pecker when he stands up and tries to live a decently healthy lifestyle.

I have my own weekend place in an adult only oriented camp ground, so to say that I’m the outdoorsy type understates my love of nature and how I think of “adventurous.”

Liquor is not part of my life simply because I don’t like the flavor. I don't smoke cigarettes or use hard drugs either. That doesn’t mean I want to manage your vices, that’s something you have to.

I am definitely into BDSM however I am not a lifestyler. My personality is switch –but I prefer to sub. In my vanilla life I tell people what to do all day so I like to give up control in the romance department. I have no problem switching but I don’t have to. I think that’s either a big turn on OR turn off for a guy.

Eating healthy has become habit - in spite of that I don’t like fish. I’m a meat (sometimes red but lots of chicken), vegy and brown rice gal. I prefer a medium done rib eye or juicy chicken breast from my BBQ grill over some theme restaurant.

I have my own place, keep house for my self - I’m not looking for any one to “take care” of me. I’m warm, sensual, smart as a ****ing whip and reliable – seeking same in a man.

I have no children, not opposed to a guy that does if he knows how to balance his life.

Who I'd like to meet:
No long distance voyagers, if I want to see you I don’t want to work that hard (6 hour drive). I’m looking for a long term steady relationship (which does not necessarily commence on the first date).

And dude, if you haven’t figured it out by now, I’m into bicycles. So you being into cycling would definitely help you move towards fiddling with my other moving parts.

I’m looking for a man with yes not to be trite – a common lifestyle especially the bicycling thing. I am NOT looking for casual sex or long distance cyber. And you really like have to know how to kiss.

You would be more of a Dom or switch then a sub and into a healthy lifestyle. You would be a one woman man. You’re my age or younger because older dudes have trouble keeping my pace.

Lastly but important…I am looking for a guy that wants to be REAL and has the you know whats to ask a chick out on a real date. I prefer to meet sooner then later to see if we have a connection rather then invest too much time on line because my time is limited.

A first date can be anything from a "coffee stop" to dinner or a bike ride. It seems choosing something with options works so if there isn't a connection & one or both don't want to proceed with the date it's easy to call it quits but on the other hand I am a networker so I am always up for making friends too. I love music, blues & rock being my favorites so a date to listen to some great live Chicago music is always fun. Even bowling (who is from Chicago & doesn't bowl??) is cool. I am up for almost anything especially if it's the guy making an effort to plan & be creative.